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Wednesday, November 19, 2008
MATTHEW RHYS AND LUKE MACFARLANE HIGHLIGHTED ON BROTHERS AND SISTERS
It took too long and now we have a writers’ strike ~ justifiably ~ but still, we waited too long to see Kevin get a kiss and now we may never see the rest of the season of Brothers and Sisters.
This episode was written by two females, Jennifer Cecil and Sherri Cooper-Landsman. And the writing between Scotty and Kevin was either good, the actors just were great at presenting it or both. I don’t write about an episode unless I like it enough to invest the effort. I liked this episode. It felt more real or less predictable than the episodes prior to “36 Hours” this season. “Something New” had some pleasant little surprise lines that gave me a laugh, smile or surge of excitement. Nothing offensive, other than the sleeze-Lena being the assigned character-of-the-moment to dislike.
Let me start with the part that I am drawn to the most ~ Kevin and his love life. Thank goodness, he has “a someone” in his life that we can enjoy again. This show suffers when he doesn’t.
Scotty Wandell (Luke MacFarlane) and Kevin Walker (Matthew Rhys)
Scotty is ba-ack. Well, yes, he’s been living at Kevin’s apartment, but tonight they kissed. I hear that Eric Winter ~ who plays Jason McCallister ~ has signed on to be back on Brothers and Sisters, but that is all I know by choice. I don’t like to know ahead what is coming, so I purposely stay uninformed unless I unexpectedly read something.
Some memorable lines of Scotty (Luke MacFarlane) and Kevin (Matthew Rhys)
Scotty: (Carrying in lobsters and champagne, walking into Kevin's apartment.) I come with decadence.
Kevin: Light some candles, I’ll be right back.
Eric Winter as Jason McCallister
Jason finally calls Kevin from Malaysia. A very excited Kevin to Jason: Jason, Oh my God. Oh, I’ve missed you. Yeah, yeah, I need to talk to you, too.
Then we find that Kevin has broken up with Jason on the very phone call that he was so thrilled to get from Jason. Hmmm….love to know what happened on that phone call. …and how Kevin turned from being loyal and in love with Jason to. . .
Kevin to Scotty: I finally spoke to Jason. I broke up with him (this is a puzzle, it seemed like Jason must have been the one to break up with Kevin . . . hmmm . . .) Scotty, when I first met you, what we had was messy. We were hot and cold, back and forth, all over the place. But I want to be back there with you because I want to be honest about who I am.
Scotty: Did you tell Jason we slept together. Kevin: Yes, I did.
Wow, the story really moved ahead tonight. We open with everyone sharing their “first times”.
The second thing that I love about this show is Sally Field. I like it when the story has her going for some “love life”. She can be real special when the script gives her some stuff to put her best into. She really cleared out the room when she talked about “Pretty Woman” in the opening scene. She just forges ahead into “intimate territory”, but the adult children don’t really want to hear.
Nora (Sally Field) meets up with her "sexual encounter of the first kind", Stan Harris, who is played by Chevy Chase.
Julia (Sarah Jane Morris) returned to her marriage with Tommy (Balthazar Getty), reuniting Tommy with baby Elizabeth, at least I think that’s the baby’s name.
Lyle Lovett is a plant by Senator Robert McCallister (Rob Lowe) to impress Kitty (Calista Flockhart) with a romantic moment.
Saul (Ron Rifkin) gets his back up with Nora, when he thinks she is meddling into his newly acknowledged homosexuality.
Sarah Whedon (Rachel Griffiths) looks to be getting a new love interest.
Justin Walker (Dave Annable) is coming off the pain killers and is sweet again. He is so good at owning up to his “flaws” with Rebecca.
Holly Harper (Patricia Wettig)…well, her character is less brassy.
And the unlikable Lena continues to be unlikable.
Rebecca (Emily Van Camp) finally has some pleasant exchanges with her mother ~ the “other woman” of William Walker and Nora’s deceased husband.
And Kitty finally welcomes Rebecca as her sister and illustrates it by asking the half sister ~ via their mutual father’s extramarital affair ~ to be one of her bride’s maids. I liked the line where Kitty says after Rebecca is thrilled to be asked to be a part of the bridal party: Should we hug?
The wedding is next Sunday night. ::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::
A Walk Down Memory Lane in the Caterers' Kitchen (Season 1): …………………………………………
Brothers and Sisters Season 2, episodes: 9/23/2007: Brothers & Sisters: Family Album 9/30/2007: Home Front 10/7/2007: An American Family 10/14/2007: History Repeating 10/21/2007: States of the Union 10/28/2007: Domestic Issues 11/4/2007: Two Places 11/11/2007: 36 Hours 11/25/2007: Something New 12/2/2007: Holy Matrimony
Call President Bush and tell him to actually act on his words regarding the Darfur genocide: "NOT ON MY WATCH." Talk is useless, President Bush. His number: 202-456-1111
Wow, seven episodes into season two of a television show that I fell for hard last year when it debuted and I finally really liked an episode. Tonight, the writing had more substance… at least the actors seem to be able to get their acting chops into the material more than any other episode so far. The episode of Brothers and Sisters, “36 hours” showed what this show does best when it is allowed to from the writing – is relate to one another. I haven’t liked the predictability of the lines and the fluffy humor in past episodes. I prefer Matthew Rhys’ character in a relationship – or at least – trying to be.
Tonight, the writing was strong. The acting followed and I was in from the first segment prior to the first commercial knowing this episode was different and better. The writers were David Marshall Grant and Molly Newman. The director was David Paymer. The only minor writing bit that I didn’t like was with the scene of Tommy breaking up with Lena (I think that is her name). I thought Lena’s lines were “throw away” lines – just gratis type lines. Just lines to move the story along, not much thought put into them and bland all the way around.
Everything else was quite stellar for this little gem of a show.
I love how Sally Field got some lines again that let her talented acting shine through. Finally. She was especially great with the scene where she locked the door on Justin and also at the pool. Great scene at that family pool…almost as good as the kitchen setting for this Walker family.
The little scene with Robert McAllister and his daughter while ice skating was well-done. And the scene with Sally’s Nora and her brother, Saul Holden, baring the truth about his sexual orientation was the kind of scene that this show has made as its trademark.
Matthew Rhys as Kevin Walker
Matthew Rhys as himself
I didn’t know that Kevin (Matthew Rhys) had not been talking to Jason McAllister. How sad for him. Matthew was great tonight, but then he is always good even when the writing leaves me wanting more substance.
Even Holly Harper was likeable tonight. It was nice to see Rebecca confide in her mother about Justin Walker.
And the writing where Justin unloads on each person within ear shot was outstandingly well-written and well-acted.
I just hope that the fluff, predictable lines don’t come back.
BROTHERS AND SISTERS Season 2 Episodes
12/2/2007: Holy Matrimony 11/25/2007: Something New
11/11/2007: 36 Hours 11/4/2007: Two Places 10/28/2007: Domestic Issues 10/21/2007: States of the Union 10/14/2007: History Repeating 10/7/2007: An American Family 9/30/2007: Home Front 9/23/2007: Brothers & Sisters: Family Album
ISN’T IT?You see it. It happens between actors. I wonder do they know it is special too? Those are the scenes that I can watch over and over and never get tired of them. It happens for me with Dirty Dancing. But then I think of the magic of the music and the way Patrick Swayze moves. It happens for me with Robert Redford.
I’ll start with Robert Redford and Meryl Streep in Out of Africa: …………………………………..
I fell for the television ABC show, Brothers and Sisters, last year when Kevin and Scotty were coupled. Kevin is played by Matthew Rhys of Cardiff, Wales. Read more about Matthew Rhys: http://ioanzone.19.forumer.com/viewtopic.php?t=114&postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=60 Matthew is special as an actor, but I especially liked Luke MacFarlane, aka Scotty Wandell, son of Wally and Bertha, paired with Matthew’s Kevin. Then came Chad played by Jason Lewis for Kevin’s love interest. Okay… so I didn’t like Chad with Kevin. Jason just didn’t look comfortable being his gay character. Then came along Eric Winter as Jason MacAllister, a minister-brother of Rob Lowe’s character, Robert. Eric Winter – I like. But tonight we got a lot of looks at Luke MacFarlane’s Scotty again. And you know what, I sat there and said to myself “They just have something special”… when they are together on the screen. So Kevin didn’t let Scotty get the kiss he was going for – but they are going to try to be friends while Eric is a missionary in Malaysia. I say send Kevin to Malaysia - that would be so cool.
In the meantime, I like not knowing ahead of time what is going to happen, but I think it is obvious that Kevin’s loyalty to his boyfriend, Jason/Eric Winter is going to be tested. It just was set up in tonight’s episode. It is always good writing for Kevin’s character when Jon Robin Baitz is writing the script and tonight was no exception to that.
This one includes the Kevin and Jason irresistible kiss: …………………………………..
This is one of my two favorite scenes with Kevin and Scotty, however there is one little move that Kevin does at the end that is cut off in this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JQPsSiSC3eo
Eric Winter will play Todd McCallister, Kevin's love interest
The magic that Kevin Walker (played by Matthew Rhys) and Scotty Wandell (played by Luke MacFarlane) lit up the screen with was undeniable.While I pine for those two to get back together, I am getting the impression that the new beau friend for Kevin may be very enjoyable.
Brothers and Sisters is a television show that I adore.My favorite actor is Matthew Rhys (from Cardiff, Wales) who plays a brother and a lawyer, Kevin Walker.And oh, by the way, Kevin is gay.
Matthew Rhys plays Kevin Walker in Brothers and Sisters
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The Film: Darfur Diaries - Message from Home
As a human rights activist, I bring to your attention the four year old genocide in Darfur, Sudan.
Genocide flourishes when there is no accountability.
WE CAN’T SAY THAT WE CARE ABOUT JUSTICE
WHEN WE DO NOTHING TO STOP THE INJUSTICE
THAT SINCE THE HOLOCAUST
HAS BEEN called- GENOCIDE.
We each have a voice.
W each have a presence.
Let us not be silent.
We have been called to be human
in the most basic way
on this subject.
Where there is a will - there is always a way.
And where there is no will - there is no way.
Silence is necessary for genocide to go on.
Our collective silence is a weapon used by the genocidaires.Silence kills.
The link in my post’s title is for foster children.
There is much need to be knowledgeable about the foster children in the USA and around the world.There is shame in the neglect that we give this grave need.The children are neglected not only once by their parents, but twice by us – the human race.
More than 100,000 children in the United States
are in foster care waiting for permanent families.
Hundreds of thousands of children around the world
WE HAVE BEEN WAITING AND GUESSING - NOW THE WAIT IS OVER.
PULL BACK THE CURTAIN AND REVEAL Senator Robert McCallister's brother, Todd.
Kevin Walker's next love interest. So , we've been told.
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The "gay brother" has been in the storyline, but we didn't know who the man would be, until now.
The actor to play Todd McCallister is Eric Winter, born July 17, 1976.
Tvguide.com broke the news March 12, Monday, evening.
The pictures are mostly "shirtless", but apparently that's what they do on daytime soaps. I wouldn't know because I have never watched them. I apologize if they offend anyone's sensibility.
A couple personal pictures. . . Above is Jon, my son, when he was at Moses Brown School. He is now a freshman at Northeastern University in the Engineering School.
I have a thing for hats. . . At Rockport, Massachusetts
The next five pictures are of the actor that I wanted Jon Robin Baitz to select for Kevin's next "beau" friend. Ioan Gruffudd (yo'wahnn griffith). He has synergy with Matthew Rhys as he is good friends with him and bought a house with him at one time, where they shared a residence for 10 years. Oh, Well...I'm not getting my wish, but here is the beautifully handsome and photogenic Ioan Gruffudd who is currently starring as William Wilberforce in AmazingGrace, the movie. Just an excuse to include him here, before they announce who is going to be cast as the new love interest for Kevin Walker - Todd McCallister.
Oh, well...heisbeautiful. And like I said, he is photogenic. You should see the other pictures I have stored in My Pictures folder of Ioan Gruffudd. They are fabulous. He is a year older than Matthew Rhys in real life. But then, Matthew Rhys is two years younger than his character, Kevin Walker. :::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::
This picture was taken at the same time as another picture I included on another posting and it gets so many hits, I decided to add another from that set of pictures.
OKAY, This is the beloved Kevin, aka Matthew Rhys, in Julie Taymor's Titus in 1999 as Demetrius, hanging upside down, I do believe. He can play tough, so let's see it, Kevin. Get an idea of what you'll put up with and how to keep 'em once your magnetism brings 'em over to you.
We want this, you "bonehead". That is meant in most endearing way, of course : )
In episode, "Something Ida This Way Comes" unwelcome guests from Kevin's opinion of Senator McCallister while preparing for Nora's 60th birthday party. Kevin is in charge, here.
Kevin wanted to be on a date with Scotty, but Mom was able to manipulate him with guilt.This was before he has been obviously working out for the torso shots that have come after this was taken.
Kevin has been asked by his brother Tommy to let him and his wife use his sperm to have a baby (Tommy is sterile) and Kevin is the ONLY sibling, as well as including Scotty in that persuasion, who thinks this could present problems for the child, as Kevin put it "whose father is his gay uncle". And the subject has been brought up at the dinner table by sister Sarah.
Okay, just in case you are one of my international readers, have gotten your interest piqued and can’t get my beloved television show Brothers and Sisters where you live, I am including two youtube montage videos made for your and my pleasure by
And since youtube has been removing these Brothers and Sisters videos recently, check them out now, while they are still available to us.Personally, I think it is unwise for this to happen with the removal of music and videos on youtube. It just make me more interested in the artists and the shows, therefore causing me to buy their music and watch the television shows. It’s good business to allow it. But that’s just my small opinion.
Kevin & Scotty (Brothers & Sisters Episodes 1-5) - Part 1
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Kevin & Scotty (Brothers & Sisters Episodes 1-5) - Part 2
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Remember to stay informed about the Darfur genocide: Never missing an opportunity to spread the word to STOP the GENOCIDE IN DARFUR :
“Peace will not work if just one man alive is unjust if one man alive is ignorant or hungry or crazy or ashamed For we have seen, if only one of us decides to pull the plug, the millions of us can kiss the world good-bye whether we like it or not.” From Joseph Pinauro’s little book “to believe in man”, illustrated by Sister Corita Kent :::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::
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Request President Bush to do the following immediately.
Dear President Bush: President Omar al-Bashir continues to ignore diplomatic efforts to pressure him to end the genocide. More than 400,000 Darfurians have already lost their lives and over 2.5 million have been displaced.The time for the consciousness-building you proposed in your State of the Union address has passed; it is time for effective American leadership to end this genocide now.I urge you, President Bush, to please take the following steps immediately: * Enact and enforce targeted sanctions against the leadership of the regime in Khartoum, including sanctions against the companies used by the leadership to finance the genocide. * Implement all sanctions and measures for which you were given legal authority when Congress enacted, and you signed, the Darfur Peace and Accountability Act, including blocking from U.S. ports those ships that have transported Sudanese oil. * Engage at the United Nations and with world leaders to enact the strictest targeted worldwide sanctions regime against Sudan’s leadership. * Develop and implement, with our NATO allies, of a no-fly zone covering Sudanese military flights over Darfur. This could be accomplished by immobilizing Sudanese planes known to have taken part in illegal bombing missions. * Engage with the United Nations to prepare and deploy a protection force for civilians in eastern Chad and the Central African Republic. * Prepare for the deployment of a credible and effective international force to Darfur to protect vulnerable civilians and ensure conditions for effective humanitarian aid. This should include a request to Congress to pay the U.S.’s full share of UN peacekeeping dues. * Produce a military contingency plan to respond to the potentially cataclysmic collapse of security and humanitarian aid networks in Darfur. * Begin building camps and barracks for phase II of the AU-UN hybrid force, for which $50 million has been included by Congress within the soon-to-be-passed FY07 Continuing Resolution.
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BROTHERS and SISTERS My Favorite Television Show and a scene to break Kevin and Chad up.
I happen to love an American television show that began September 24, 2006. It airs on Sunday evenings, on ABC at 10:00 p.m. The show, Brothers and Sisters, is the creation of Jon Robin Baitz. Robbie Baitz is openly gay and committed to himself and to the viewers that he would not avoid dealing openly and honestly with all of the characters on the show which includes one adult gay male as a part of a large family. Kevin Walker is the character who plays the man who shows us into Robbie’s journey. He is played believably and exceptionally well by Welsh actor Matthew Rhys (pronounced rees). For many of us Matthew is our favorite actor on the show although the entire cast is richly talented. Kevin is an attorney. I know, I for one, love Kevin because of how Matthew Rhys portrays Kevin. Though Kevin is not gay in real life, he has no problem with all that is required to sincerely come across as gay with his acting and willingness to commit to all that Kevin is. Kevin was introduced to us last fall as having an ex-boyfriend’s picture in his law office, while meeting his new beau friend, Scotty Wandell. I love Kevin and Scotty together because they seem to have warmth that exudes from themselves to the other. It’s a kind of magical charm that sends sparks out from the television screen. There is a synergy between Matthew Rhys, who plays Kevin Walker, and Luke MacFarlane, who plays Scotty Wandell – where the sum of what each is becomes another whole entity when on the screen together. Sadly, Kevin and Scotty had some quirky little arguments and they have been estranged from one another except for one night when they had been set up as a blind date one for the other. However, this was also during a time when Kevin had been dating another man who was not openly gay and was squeezing Kevin back into the dreaded “don’t ask, don’t tell” invisible existence. And it hurts Kevin. Chad is soon to rock Kevin’s world. And NOT in a good way.
Below I have written (in a about 15 minutes) a fan fiction of the scene that Chad and Kevin take their tattered loose ends of a relationship and cut the ties that bind them. Falling in love is the easy part. Breaking up is the cruelest part of a love and life affair that built you up to let you down. I have two songs included here from Youtube that I have selected. I have included the lyrics for you to read how appropriate the song is for this multilayered chapter of Kevin’s love life. Of course, it is difficult to find a song with the right pronouns, you know, "he" in place of "she", so you’ll have to substitute in your thinking “he” for all of the “she” pronouns. But either one of these songs works for me, as background music for this little scene of emotional pain and dis-ease. I’ve been “there” more than once in my life. It just plain sucks you lifeless in one way and yet if you feel the pain – you KNOW you’re alive. So in that sense, I learned to be grateful for feeling the pain.
It's really over, you made your stand You got me crying, as was your plan But when my loneliness is through, I'm gonna find another you
You take your sweaters You take your time You might have your reasons but you will never have my rhymes I'm gonna sing my way away from blue I'm gonna find another you
When I was your lover No one else would do If I'm forced to find another, I hope he looks like you Yeah and he's nicer too
So go on baby Make your little get away My pride will keep me company And you just gave yours all away Now I'm gonna dress myself for two Once for me and once for someone new I'm gonna do somethings you wouldn't let me do Oh I'm gonna find another you
Just ignore the video of the SVU TV show and simply use the music as background to the scene.
“Dreaming With A Broken Heart” by John Mayer
When you're dreamin with a broken heart The wakin up is the hardest part you roll outta bed and down on your knees and for a moment you can hardly breath
wonderin was he really here is he standin in my room no he's not, cuz he's gone gone gone gone gone
When you're dreamin with a broken heart The givin up is the hardest part he takes you in with his cryin eyes then all at once you have to say goodbye
wonderin could you stay my love will you wake up by my side no he can't, cuz he's gone gone gone gone gone
Now do i have to fall asleep with roses in my hand do i have to fall asleep with roses in my hand do i have to fall asleep with roses in my hand do i have to fall asleep with roses in my, roses in my hand baby would you get them if i did no you wont, cuz your gone gone gone gone gone
When you're dreamin with a broken heart the wakin up is the hardest part
Chad calls Kevin on Friday afternoon, when they had plans to go to dinner and spend the night together. It’s a rainy, very, very windy and gray day with ominous clouds. A storm is brewing.
Chad: Kev, I-I have to talk to you before tonight. Something is wrong and I … I don’t… want to hurt you.
Kevin: What, Chad, you’ve changed your mind.
Chad: It’s not that simple.
Kevin: Yeah, Chad it’s simple. Truth is truth. You’d rather run from it.
Chad: No. No. Kevin. I…I just have to sort things out. I’ve never felt this way before. And you’re the rea-
Kevin: Just… stop, Chad. You take my heart, work it around in your hands like I’m putty. Chew me up and spit me out. Look, Chad…
Chad: Kevin, don’t do thi-
Kevin: Don’t do what…tell you the truth?
Chad: I have real strong feelings for you.
Kevin: You’re rich Chad. What you have is confusion. Confusion on who you are. I know because, I’ve had my times. But…
Chad: Kevin, can I see you and talk this through.
Kevin: (firmly, with resolve) No. I wanted to love you. But the you I want to love is not there. You’re floundering around playing around with what Chad to be and while you’re doing that you’re playing around with my heart.
Chad: But Kev…
Kevin: Look, Chad, I hope you find the man inside you and let him out. I can’t take this stuff from you or anyone else anymore. It’s over Chad.
Silence
Chad: Kevin, are you sure that’s wha…
Kevin: Yeah…Chad. I’m sure.
Saturday morning, Kevin’s apartment. Kevin’s lying in bed after a restless, sad night under the covers. We see his face, which says it all… the frozen in emotional pain, looking like the life has been sucked out of him. A tear starts to well up in his eye, and slowing moves down his face as he lays on his side. The music has started of “I’m Gonna Find Another You” by John Mayer
This excerpt just below is from a love letter written in the book, Soul on Ice, by Eldridge Cleaver to Beverly Axelrod a San Francisco lawyer while he was in Folsom Prison. I think it is beautifully expressed as to how and why it is difficult to put ourselves out there on the limb to really give and take love.
“…The reason two people are reluctant to really strip themselves naked in front of each other is because in doing so they make themselves vulnerable and give enormous power over themselves one to the other. How awful, how deadly, how catastrophically they can hurt each other, wreck and ruin each other forever!...Better to maintain shallow, superficial affairs; that way the scars are not too deep, no blood is hacked from the soul. You beautifully – O, how beautifully!! – spoke...of ‘What an awesome thing it is to feel oneself on the verge of the possibility of really knowing another person...’ and...I do not believe that a beautiful relationship has to always end in carnage. I do not believe that we have to be fraudulent and pretentious,...I know that sometimes people fake on each other out of genuine motives to hold onto the object of their tenderest feelings. They see themselves as so inadequate that they feel forced to wear a mask in order to continuously impress the other. I do not want to ‘hold you’, I want you to ‘stay’ out of your own need for me. ...It takes time and deeds, and this involves trust, it involves making ourselves vulnerable to each other, to strip ourselves naked, to become sitting ducks for each other...I am vulnerable and defenseless and I make myself a duck for you. ...And it is not a fraud, forced out of desperation...”
Accept me as I am, Don’t require me to be Anything I’m not… …I’d rather take the probable consequences and possible discrimination, if necessary, for me to be myself. If I’d be any other way for whatever reason I would have to face a hypocrite in my mind’s constant mirror.
There is no altenative, I am me. ..My ideas are not borrowed. They are j u s t mine, fused conglomeration.
I try to love others for what they are Not for what I can make them up to be.
My hope is that you can accept me as I, alone, am. If you cannot, then words be silent and we will part, going our own separate ways. Peace.
For those of us who can meet the beautiful of earth is ours in infinity We will stop no where. All in us is open and all is open to us.
We dare to step out into this world of infinity aware of the possible hurt but knowing we must become so vulnerable. We have no other way to go.
The arms of our souls are long, The depth of our warmth penetrates beyond physical imagination. And we cling to each other, in peaceful trembling.
I love my life. I love where I live. And I am passionate about my passions. I love to dance. Necessary to live: music, piano, singing, writing, acting, painting.
I have been fighting for and supporting the arts all my adult life. Since 2004, I have been working with other activists to end the Darfur genocide.
I have traveled to Europe many times since my early twenties. Places I have been: many USA states including Hawaii, Montreal, Canada, Barbados, France, Spain, Luxembourg, England, Austria, Switzerland, Italy, Greece and Germany - and have wonderful memories.
My last trip was in May - June 2013 to Spain.
I would like to travel to Europe and Kyoto, Japan.
I love the southwest where I have visited Hopi, Navajo, Zia and San Idlefonso potters.
Life is exciting and I intend to live it full-out to the end.
B.S. and M.M., both in music
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